Straight Fellas- James and Dillan. His size doesn't matter. You might both be surprised by what develops naturally. Make him feel at ease and develop things naturally. This allows time for his attraction to develop. It is true, and I enjoyed it very much.
Instead, learn to neg.
Playfully tease him about it. I turned around and he was already taking his clothes off. Follow up with him.
You don't have to approach a man every time you go out.